purpose, values dissect, Q&A, campaign
Read about the 5 Values of Hila the Killa, artist, performer, creator, heart spreader.
Through various forms of creative expression, she spreads messages about self love, acceptance, sex positivity, and Zero Waste lifestyle.
"To connect it to love, if I was just one love explosion- like how a firework appears in the sky and is gone, I don’t think I would make the same impact. What I really strive for is sustainability. How long can I keep this fire burning? How can I be resourceful and efficient so I can keep spreading hearts, spreading love, and also take care of the planet, rejuvenate the gifts that were given from the Earth, and take care of the Earth?"
"I’m passionate about Sustainability because there’s so much mindlessness. So it’s like I'm bringing awareness to plastic, because plastic is this thing we made. What we throw away defines us. How we move about this world and what we decide to take responsibility for, and what we decide to not to take responsibility for.
I think a lot of people, me included, have been going through life saying “I want change, I want people to respect each other, I want to see racism abolished” and getting angry with the government and the media, but not looking internally in the way that I operate in this world, and the way that I support businesses with my time and my money.
And so Zero Waste and trash mindfulness, it’s a way to hone in on every activity that you do as a human being in this planet and really being accountable for yourself."
"Being responsible for your impact, your actions, your moves, the thing you decide to do or say or not say. That’s very important to me especially as a performer and writer, choosing my words and ideas I want to express and making sure I’m not judging other people, or placing blame on other people. Constantly returning to the point of inner reflection. Introspection."
purpose, values dissect, storytelling, Q&A
I interview Mukee, the Creator of The Pussy Talks about How it Started and what her 5 values are that led her to her purpose today.
"Every time we reject sex, our sexual energy, our body, we are rejecting Self. It is like a war with our natural sexual procreative force. I knew it, I felt it. The procreative force is absolutely the strongest force in existence in every atom of creation. It is the force that gets us up in the morning."
"Sex is the biggest taboo, the most repressed part of humanity. It’s the biggest healing for every human being to completely accept everything about them and the power of their sexual energy and the end of guilt, shame. So when there is total connection and acceptance of one’s sexual energy and how it is connected into everything, then the reality changes."
"There’s no freedom until we free ourselves from all of the contaminations we have against ourselves. it doesn’t matter where they came from, any thought or any underlying judgment of how you express your sexuality, whether you choose celibacy, celebrating yourself and every other expression with others."
Q&A, purpose, values dissect
On this special Mother’s Day, I interviewed Ruth Kim, the founder of Backed by Women.
Ruth is a powerhouse of energy and love. Dominant in the masculine sense of productivity and efficiency, she also fosters a unique feminine side fueled by desire, connection, and intuition. I have so much respect for this woman and am inspired by her story.
This interview dissects the 5 values of Backed By Women and how it came to be.
And together, we co-created the following Values Statement:
Rooted in LOVE, we allow ourselves to SURRENDER in CONNECTION with other women to discover our FEMININE power within and be fueled by our PURPOSE to change the world.
purpose, storytelling, rants, recap
This past weekend, I had just graduated from CP12 where I spent 7 months in a transformative and experiential Coaching “Change your Entire Life” program with 124 other deep diverse divers from all around the world. The themes from CP12 were Wake UP, Come OUT, and Join IN. Pushing us all past our edges, softening and smoothing our internal systems, moving fast at the speed of desire. We all played full out.
I’m in digestion mode now, reflecting on the subtle to huge transformational shifts that took place internally within and externally through all of the moments that expanded my consciousness. And I can say wholeheartedly now, without shame, that I choose to go down this path. I choose to live a life of Desire, Connection, Community, Healing, and Awakening. I choose to constantly Come Out just as I am.
I met Scout at the New Living Expo while I was out to get free samples at a smoothie stand. He was a big bear of a dude, wearing a purple suit, purple boots and purple beard to match. We get into conversation and he offers to give me a powerful energy reading and meditation. l let my guards completely down, I feel open, expansive, powerful, light, and clear, close to tears at the end of it.
I gift him an Awareness reMINDmeband from my wrist (also purple!) and tell him about my mission, how I interview people to share life nuggets about humanity. He looks at me for 5 seconds and says “I’ve got a crazy idea” andinvites me to his morning radio talkshow so I can do a raw interview with him there. Apparently, I was talking to the host of the longest running Personal Growth radio programs in the nation.
Sparks of electricity ran throughout my system as I stared into the mic and felt the energy of 15,000 listeners on the other end. And as I spoke, I was taken aback at how smooth and grounded and sure my voice was as I fell more into my body. I took myself out of control and spoke from the heart about my project and directed my attention solely on him. At the end, I had his endorsement of my work and my craft of how intimate the whole experience had felt from his side.
So lesson learned: Listen to the voice. Go for free samples if that’s your desire. Be generous with your time and attention. Feel the impact of every small to big thing you do. #POWER
Click to listen to the audio recording of our interview. Listen to learn more about RMV mission and my journey throughout it all. Listen to hear about Scout's 5 values and how interrelated everything really is. Listen to complete this story and ask yourself "What are your top 5 values?"